TIPS ON FIRST DATE

      She's a sophomore, pretty and soft spoken.He's a college senior handsome and athletic. They meet, fall in love and live happily ever after.
      This is a common romantic plot not only on reel but in real life as well. But you know of course that the plot can't be that simple. Somewhere along that storyline must be a couple of spats and quarrels which somehow strengthen a relationship
       But let's not talk about those. Let's look at another ingredient, a pleasant one, that also strengthens relationships: dating.
       Date are essential social engagements between the opposite sex because they're the best and decent way to get to know someone you are romantically interested in and find out if you two are compatible. Dating is in effect a way of starting:"I'm interested in getting to know you better" and asking "Are you?" The first date is the most important of all.
       On the first date, you may decide that you have finally found Mr. Right or the woman of your dreams or the occasion may unfortunately turn out to be a disaster that you never want to see the other's face for as long as you live!
        It doesn't have to be the latter. Why risk a disastrous evening when you can have a wonderful time even if you discover that your date isn't exactly your type.
        Here are some tips for the males and females, young and old alike, to make your first date, be it a new person or your first time out with the opposite sex, an enjoyable one.
        Be on time. It's not true that woman have to be late or have the right to be so. It's childish to think that your date will think you're too eager if you come on time.Many girls intentionally delay things and then sweetly apologize with non-existent reasons.Now, isn't that silly? If you know you take long to get ready, start preparing earlier.
        The best way to start a date is to get it off on time. This way nobody's sour about having to wait for an hour or so. Like in school and in work, tardiness is a bad mark -- a bad mark indeed in the record of love.
        Try to put your best foot forward. Remember that first impressions are crucial. Dress appropriately.
Be conscious of your appearance.
Watch your manners, the way you talk, walk, eat, laugh. But don't overdo it and be overly conscious, otherwise you'd be too busy guarding yourself to enjoy.
        Speaking of first impressions, it won't hurt to check your breath once in a while. Offensive mouth odor is the fastest way to make you a "turn-off". Just to be sure, carry along some Astring-o-sol pastilles in your pocket or bag. In candy form, Astring-o-sol is like an instant mouthwash" which kills mouth germs that cause bad breath.
        While you're trying to make a good impression, also be yourself. It seems contradictory, doesn't it? Not really. Just don't try to be somebody you're not.If you are not the talkative type don't babble away and pretend to be witty or something just to impress the other. If you are yourself, you're more relaxed and being means enjoying.
         Don't over-indulge on your partner. Both males and females may be guilty of this and it spoils the whole affair: Don't be anxious that the other isn't enjoying that you try so hard to do or say things that will please your date. As it turn out, you both won't enjoy the evening.
         In contrast, don't be selfish. You may get carried away and dominate the conversation throughout the evening. Give your date a change to share his own stories. If, on the other hand, you're totally bored, don't sulk. Be patient.